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When Stories Became Dangerous 

At 10, I fell in love with knights—not the fairytale kind, but the flawed, conflicted ones. Richard the Lionheart, Merlin, the Round Table… I wrote stories where heroes weren’t perfect, just brave. Back then, I didn’t realize I was rebelling against perfectionism.
 
Then, one day, my best friend came to school in tears, a bruise on her neck. She told me she’d been helping her parents in their shop when a man ripped her phone from her neck so violently it left a mark. I was furious, helpless—so I did the only thing I knew. I wrote.
 
When I handed her the story, I thought I was offering a gift. Instead, she threw it back at me. “How could you do this to me?”
 
Turns out, she had arrhythmia. Reading my words had spiked her heart rate so badly she nearly fainted. I hadn’t known. I also hadn’t known stories could be weapons.
 
For years, I wrote in secret—eleven short stories, half a novel—thrillers, mysteries, stories where justice was served. But I refused to let anyone read them. What if my words hurt someone again?
 
Then I discovered neuroscience.
 
My fear wasn’t truth—it was my amygdala misfiring, treating storytelling like danger. Meanwhile, my prefrontal cortex knew better, but fear drowned it out. Our brains aren’t wired for vulnerability; they treat shame like a predator.
 
So I hacked mine.
•Breathing rituals to calm the amygdala.
•Dopamine-driven drafting, celebrating progress over perfection.
•“Not My Shame” filters, separating my truth from their reactions.
 
Slowly, I stopped writing for an imaginary jury.
 
Now, I help actors and writers do the same. Because perfectionism isn’t diligence—it’s fear wearing a crown. And creativity? It’s not about knights in shining armor. It’s about rebels who keep writing, even when their armor is dented.
 
I still fight the urge to delete everything. But I’ve learned:
•Fear of judgment is a misfired survival instinct.
•Shame shrinks creativity—but we can outsmart it.
•Imperfection isn’t failure; it’s data.
 
So if you’re tired of silencing your stories to protect everyone but yourself…
 
Let’s rebel together.

Here Are Happy Clients!

Kseniya, you are the best listener I have ever met, after listening all about the client, you catch what he or she needs/ like having different perspective or able to see what he or she exactly is. During our sessions, I stopped blaming myself and created a different way of thinking, u are like a mirror, mirrors are honest and show the things as they are. In bad ways and good ways.

Nurçem Koç

Administrative Assistant at HSBC ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

In just 60 minutes, the coaching session worked like magic! The coach’s insightful guidance helped me break through my barriers and ignited my motivation. I feel empowered and ready to conquer my goals. Highly recommended! 

Esmanur Y.

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This coaching session was a game-changer! The coach’s passion and expertise shone through, leaving me inspired and determined. Kseniya skillfully tailored the session to address my specific challenges, unlocking new possibilities I hadn’t considered. Her genuine support and encouragement created a safe space for growth. I left the session feeling rejuvenated and armed with practical strategies to tackle obstacles. If you’re seeking a transformative experience, look no further – this coaching is the real deal.

Hatice Altınok

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Creative individuals are 30% more likely to experience higher levels of life satisfaction, as their ability to solve problems in innovative ways directly contributes to their overall well-being.

Creativity Research Journal
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My Ideals & Aspirations

Some of our ideals include:

Embracing “Creative Freedom”: Time to kick those self-imposed limits to the curb! I’m all about helping you explore and express your ideas freely—no fear of judgment, no striving for perfection. Let’s face it, those “messy” ideas? They could be your next big breakthrough. 

Championing the “Creative Journey”: Creativity’s a marathon, not a sprint! The goal is not some magical end result—it’s all about enjoying the ride and growing along the way. Misses and mishaps? They’re just part of the process. Think of them as “plot twists” in your creative adventure.

Supporting “Fearless Exploration”: Think of me as your creativity cheerleader, encouraging you to go off the beaten path and explore those wild, unconventional ideas. No fear of failure here! Take those risks, push those boundaries, and let’s make something original. Who said creativity should be boring?

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